We used to have a Roadtrek with 2 large tanks, one 11, the other something like 20. After our first trip, I never used more than that 11 and drained the big tank so as not to use it. Still, filling the Roadtrek internal tank required carrying a big hose, because sometimes when we were out, we'd have to water up at a motel spigot or something. It was, at times, frustrating. This is why when we went with a built camper van (we hired someone to do 80% of the work to our specs), we went with removable water jugs. We use the ULINE 5 gallon jugs. I have found that the 5 gallon jugs are easier to fill and maintain, and either my wife or I (both seniors) can lift the 42 lbs of water. But again, we are using our van for trips of 1 - 7 weeks, not living. Many of the state forest, national forest, or other public campgrounds (including county and city campgrounds) have water. When we camp in areas out west that are very arid, we carry extra jugs of water (hence the collapsibles). We still carry a hose--a 10 foot slinky shower hose that we use for showering AND for attaching to a filter when we fill our water bottles. This works for us, but it certainly isn't to everyone's preference and I could well imagine that for someone living in a van, the entire setup may need to be different. For us, it is much easier to bring the jugs in and bleach them where we can see that they're clean than to try to clean, bleach, and trouble shoot a fixed internal tank. Winterizing, fixing things, etc--it is all easier when the system itself is easy to access, remove, and replace. Less plumbing, fewer places that can leak, etc. I even bring the pump in in winter when we're not traveling, to avoid freezing issues.
There are pros and cons to both approaches, but having had vans with both approaches, I much prefer the simpler one.