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@JimbobNY ,, That is very helpful to understand a bit about your wants/needs.
IMO, Van Design/Build is just a series of compromises. Our 2 designs focused around having a comfortable queen size bed & all other decisions were subject to the bed. Our bed went east/west with the heads & the driver’s side (typical road crowns would have our heads higher than our feet).
IMO a shower is a “Big Deal” in a van. We get by with Navy showers & road facilities just fine. If a shower is that important to you then I would look at
@SteveSS design.
A shower IMO is one of the most complicated wants/needs for a van. If you need one you need one, but for us it would have been a mistake. The complication results mostly in
water ,,, packing / heating (isotherm) / grey / getting more / disposing the grey
You sound adventurous, one way of vetting out your design is to use your van while you sort out what you truly want/need.
Having design/built 2 EXTs, I can attest to a couple of things ,,, at least in our case;
1) At the end of the day it isn’t even about the van
2) No matter how much you think about it ,,, better ideas come about from actual road use/experience